Well, last night it finally happened. I asked Brandi Nicole Stark to be my wife. And she said, "Yes!" Here's the story...
It all happened at her aunt and uncles house. They've got a really great pool in the backyard so that was where the main event was going to take place. Her cousins took her out for a little while during the evening and I headed that way and started setting everything up. She came back to the house at around 9 and the family started playing some card games while her brother, uncle, and I finished getting all the final touches on everything. I had 400 votive candles set up around the pool-some in the shape of a heart and some just scattered around. But, there was just the slightest breeze so they wouldn't stay lit! So, we managed to find these colored, plastic cups that we put the candles in. And it actually looked really nice. But, we started running out of time so we didn't get all 400 lit. It was still really, really beautiful, though. Then we scattered 4 dozen roses all over the ground and leading down to where I was going to propose.
So, at 9:30 I rang the doorbell and ran off. She found a note on the door that told her that she was going to go on a little journey. So, she picked up the flashlight we had provided for her and started down the path. Leading her were note cards I had made up-each with something that I love about her written on them. Along the way I had a few presents for her to open and a DVD I had made for her to watch. After the last gift, there was a note for her to head down to the pool area where I would be waiting for her.
I had hired two violin players so as we was walking down the steps to the pool they were playing the most amazing music you could ever imagine. I mean, really, it was just magical. So, I led her to the middle of everything, told her how much I loved her and that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. Then, I got down on one knee and said, "Brandi, will you marry me?" And she said, "Yes! A thousand times, yes!" So, we talked for a little while longer and looked at all the candles and the whole set-up.
To finish up the evening I took her over to a table I had set up and we took communion together. I wanted to first thing we do as an engaged couple to honor God and His faithfulness in our lives.
So, there isn't a wedding date set just yet but when it is, I'll let everyone know! Also, there should be some pictures coming in the next couple days so be on the look out for them.
I'M GETTING MARRIED!!